Yolembedwa ndi Shannon McGrew

Ndikhala woyamba kuvomereza, zikafika kwa ana, sindine wokonda nawo kwambiri. Zachidziwikire, kamodzi ndi kanthawi pang'ono mumapeza kuti ndizosiyana, koma kwakukulukulu, ndizochepa. Nthawi zonse ndikadzapezeka ndikuwonera kanema wowopsa ndipo nkhaniyo imayamba kunena kuti mwana akhoza kukhala wachiwanda kapena woyipa, nthawi yomweyo imalimbikitsa chifukwa chake sindikufuna kukhala ndi ana. Ndikutanthauza, muyenera kuvomereza, nthawi zina zimatha kukhala zowopsa ndipo sindipepesa chifukwa cha moni, mwawona MWAMUNA? Ana awa ausiku sadzasiya chilichonse zikawononga chisangalalo chilichonse ndi chisangalalo chomwe chitha kukhala mkati mwanu.

Tonsefe timadziwa bwino ana oyipa akale MUDZI WA OWONZEKA ndi ANA A CHIMODZI, kwa wotsutsa-Khristu mu MWANA WA ROSEMARY, koma ndimafuna kuwonera makanema ochepa omwe samakhudzidwa kwambiri ndi mtundu wa "ana opha" momwe angathere. Ngati mumakonda lingaliro lowopsa la ziwanda za ziwanda kapena zakupha ana wamba zomwe zikuyenda mwadzidzidzi, ndiye izi MAFILIMU 5 Oopsya Omwe Angakupangitseni Kuti Musadzakhale Ndi Ana idzakhala njira yanu; amene akudziwa, zitha kukulimbikitsani kuti mufune banja lanu.

MWANA WABWINO (1993)

Ndimakonda kanemayu pazifukwa zambiri, koma kumapeto kwa tsiku, ndichikumbutso chodabwitsa kuti ana atha kukhala achisoni monganso akulu. Kwa iwo omwe sadziwa MWANA WABWINO ) zachiwawa.

Kanemayo ndiabwino kwambiri, ndipabwino kwambiri, ndipo amapatsa owonera zisudzo zodabwitsa ndi a Elijah Wood komanso a Macaulay Culkin. Ndi amodzi mwamakanema osowa omwe amandipangitsabe kukhala omasuka nthawi zonse ndikawonera. Nthawi zambiri timaphunzitsidwa ndi ana omwe angakhale angelo angwiro kapena okonda kusokoneza ena kotero kuti tikamawonera kanema ngati uyu, zimakhala ngati tikuponyedwa m'bafa lamadzi ozizira, makamaka chifukwa kanemayo amawoneka ngati wowona. Ngakhale kanemayo adatulutsidwa zaka 23 zapitazo, akuwonetsabe kuti ndi imodzi mwamakanema abwino kwambiri omwe akuwonetsa zowopsa zomwe ana amatha.

JOSHUA (2007)

Patha zaka zingapo ndisanawonere kanemayo koma nditangoyamba kuifufuza kunabweretsanso m'mene ndikumvera kanemayu. Kumbukirani kukhala mwana yekhayo, zinali zosangalatsa bwanji kukhala ndi chikondi ndi kulambira kochokera kwa makolo anu? Kenako nkhani idadza, kuti amayi adzakhala ndi mwana wina ndipo, ngati mukadakula msinkhu ngati ine, mumamva nsanje. Ambiri, ngati si tonse, tingaphunzire kunyalanyaza izi, koma osati Joshua. Palibe kamodzi.

YOSHUA malo ozungulira banja la Cairn komanso kulengeza kwakubwera kwa mwana wamkazi. Joshua, yemwe wazindikirika kale kuti ndi wachinyamata wodabwitsa komanso wosazolowereka, ayamba kuwonetsa zolinga zoyipa zambiri. Iyi ndi kanema yomwe imabwera pansi pa khungu lanu molawirira ndipo siyimatha. Zimagwiranso ntchito yabwino kukuwonetsani momwe munthu angakhalire woyipa, mosasamala za msinkhu wake, chochitika chimodzi makamaka chomwe ndidakumbutsidwa chimakhudzana ndi Joshua kudula makoswe pofuna kutsekula. Mwana akayamba kupha nyama kuti azisangalala nazo, nthawi zambiri pamakhala mbendera yayikulu kwambiri yoti zinthu sizingayende bwino.

ORPHAN (2009)

Ena atha kunena kuti kanemayu sayenera kukhala pamndandanda chifukwa chakumapeto kwake koma sindikuvomereza. Ndikuganiza kuti ichi ndi chitsanzo chabwino cha chifukwa chake munthu ayenera kusamala akafuna kukhala ndi mwana. Monga munthu amene adakonda lingaliro lokhala mwana, kanemayo akumaliza ndikuyika mantha a Mulungu mwa ine. Ndikufunabe kutengera tsiku lina, koma ndikumva kuti kanemayu azikhala kumbuyo kwa malingaliro anga nthawi imeneyo ikafika.

ANTHU AMasiye malo ozungulira mwamuna ndi mkazi, osewera a Peter Sarsgaard ndi Vera Farminga, omwe asankha kutenga mwana wamkazi wazaka zisanu ndi zinayi. Chiwembucho chikuwoneka chophweka mokwanira, komabe, pali zambiri kwa mwanayu kuposa momwe amamuonera. Chowonadi chikayamba kuwonekera, timapeza kuti mwana uyu amakhala ndi chinsinsi chakuda kwambiri komanso chakupha chokhala ndi zotsatirapo zoyipa. Ndi chitsanzo chabwino kwambiri cha momwe simungakhulupirire chilichonse kapena aliyense poopa zomwe angakhale atakhala mkati mwawo.

MUTHU (2016)

O, mimba. Palibe zinthu zambiri pamoyo zomwe ndimaopa, koma mimba, ndicho chimodzi mwazo. Zomwe thupi la mkazi limadutsa miyezi 9 iyi zimandiwopsa kwambiri. Zachidziwikire, anthu angakuuzeni zonse kuti ndizabwino, makamaka nthawi yoyamba yomwe mumayang'ana mwana wanu wakhanda, koma ngati munthu yemwe alibe ana, sindingaziwone choncho. Komanso, INU MUNTHU MUNGABWERERE MUNTHU KUKHALA M'MThupi LANU KWA MWEZI 9. Taganizirani izi. Ndizowopsa.

Komabe, ndimachoka.  SHELLEY, ndi kanema yomwe idatuluka chaka chino kuchokera ku Sweden yomwe idandipangitsa kuti ndisakhale ndi mwana. Kanemayo amakhala mozungulira banja lomwe silingakhale ndi mwana yemwe amafunsa wantchito wawo waku Romania ngati angamupatse mwana wamwamuna. Wantchito amavomereza koma mimba ikayamba kukula, zinthu sizimayenda monga momwe amakonzera. Kanemayo palokha ndi kanema wowotcha wowopsa koma sizimatengera momwe ulili. Masewerowa ndiabwino kwambiri ndipo mutu wankhanowu ndiwowopsa komanso wamantha, makamaka kwa omwe amatsogola omwe ali ndi udindo wonyamula mwana uyu. Mapeto ake, kanemayo amatenga mbali zabwino kwambiri za MWAMUNA ndi MWANA WA ROSEMARY ndipo amatipatsa mbambande yaku Sweden yoopsa komanso yovuta.

MASO A AMAYI ANGA (2016)

Imodzi mwamakanema omwe ndimakonda a 2016 ndi a Nicolas Pesce MASO A MAYI ANGA. Ikajambulidwa bwino mu zithunzi zakuda ndi zoyera ndipo ili ndi zochitika zina zabwino kwambiri zomwe ndaziwona chaka chonse, makamaka ndi a Kika Magalhaes aluso kwambiri. Ndi kanema womva chisoni kwambiri wa kutayika ndi kunyalanyazidwa ndipo imodzi mwamakanema ochepa omwe andisiya ndikumva wopanda kanthu ndikung'ambika mkati.

Kanemayo adazungulira mayi wachichepere, wosungulumwa, yemwe adayenera kuchitira umboni kupha mwankhanza kwa amayi ake adakali aang'ono kwambiri. Atakula, amayamba kukhala ndi zizolowezi zosayenera zokhudzana ndi chikondi ndi chikondi. Ndi filimu yovuta kwambiri kuiwona ndipo ndi yopanda tanthauzo mumtundu wake. Monga munthu amene kholo lake latayika, ndimamva ululu womwe munthuyu adamva mufilimuyo, koma sindinathe kumvetsetsa momwe zidasokonekera malingaliro ake. Amayi ake atapita, amasiyidwa ndi abambo ake omwe amakhala kutali komanso opanda chidwi zomwe zimamupangitsa kuti ayesetse kupeza chikondi ndi kuvomerezedwa munjira zachilendo komanso zowopsa.

Ndinafuna kuwonjezera kanemayu pamndandanda wanga chifukwa ndiwokhawo pano womwe umawonetsa wamkulu yemwe ali ndi zizolowezi zonga za mwana zomwe zakhala zovuta kwambiri. Zimandiwopsyeza kuganiza kuti ngati ndingakhale ndi mwana ndipo chilichonse chikandichitikira, kuti china chonga ichi chitha kukhudza mwana wanga motere.

Ponseponse, pali mwina mazana amakanema omwe angawonetse mosavuta chifukwa chake kukhala ndi ana kumakhala kowopsa ngati zoyipa. Pakadali pano, ili ndi mndandanda wanga basi ngati muli ndi malingaliro chonde tiuzeni. Ngati pali chinthu chimodzi chomwe ndidaphunzira pakuphatikiza pamodzi MAFILIMU 5 Oopsya Omwe Angakupangitseni Kuti Musadzakhale Ndi Ana ndikuti uwu ndi mtundu wina wamagulu owopsa omwe amawonekera pansi pa khungu langa.