Ena a inu mwina mwawerenga posachedwa za Rachel True komanso kusiya kwake momveka bwino pamisonkhano yayikulu ya Ufiti. Osewera wakuda mufilimuyi sanatulukemo pazomwe zidachitikazi kuyambira pomwe filimuyo idatulutsidwa, kuphatikiza ziwonetsero za MTV pomwe nyenyezi zitatu zoyera adapemphedwa kuti apereke mphotho pomwe adakhala, akuwonerera kuchokera kwa omvera.

Kuyankha pagulu kunali komweko ndikugawika. Pomwe ena adayamika Zowona chifukwa cholankhula, ena adamuyimbira kutanthauza kuti mwina alibe mphamvu zokoka ena atatu pamisonkhano ndi mawonekedwe ena.

Aliyense amene amadziwa ntchito yanga azindikira kuti nthawi yomweyo imamveka mabelu alamu m'mutu mwanga, ndipo ndimafuna kulemba za kuchotsedwa kwa wochita seweroli, komanso kupezeka kwa tsankho mumabizinesi oopsa kutsogolo ndi kumbuyo kwa kamera.

Panali vuto limodzi lokha, kwenikweni. Ndine wachizungu, ndipo inenso ndimagonana ndi amuna anzanga ndipo ndimamvetsetsa kuponderezedwa chakumbuyo, ndikudziwanso kuti gawo loyera "lofotokozera" limabwera ndi mwayi wina womwe ena sagawana nawo.

Kuti ndilembe zenizeni zakusankhana mitundu komanso zachiwerewere m'makampani opanga mafilimu, ndimafuna omwe adadziwonera okha.

Momwe zimachitikira, February ndi Mwezi Wambiri Wakuda ku States ndi Amayi mu Mwezi Wowopsa, ndipo ndinawona uwu ngati mwayi wophatikiza zikondwerero zonsezi kuti tikambirane nkhani yovutayi.

Ndidatumiza mameseji kwa opanga atatu amakanema omwe ndimawadziwa makamaka omwe adangowonjezera mayina awiri pamndandanda ndipo Lamlungu lapitali, asanuwo adakhala nane kudzera pafoni kuti tikambirane zomwe, ngakhale ena angakuuzeni, sizinasinthe pafupifupi zokwanira ku US makamaka.

Pa ola lotsatirali ndidachita mantha pomwe azimayi odabwitsiwa adandichititsa chidaliro komanso nkhani zondifotokozera ine, ndikufanizira zomwe zidachitika mu bizinesi yopanga zoopsa.

Tidayamba kukambirana ndi zomwe Rachel True adachita, ndipo zidawonekeratu mwachidule osati zomwe ochita seweroli amatanthauza kwa azimayiwa, komanso momwe chithandizo chake chimagwirizanira ndi zomwe akumana nazo.

"Zomwe zakhala zikuchitika ndi Rachel zandikhudzanso," wolemba / wotsogolera / wojambula / wolemba ku Dallas adayamba Tiffany Warren. “Ndakhala ndikulimbana kwambiri ndikupeza maudindo kotero kuti pamapeto pake ndinasweka ndikufunsa wotsogolera kuno ku Texas chifukwa chake. Kodi ndi china chake chomwe ndalakwitsa? Ndipo ndalandilapo ndemanga kuti sakudziwa chochita ndi ine chifukwa mwina sindikuwoneka 'wakuda mokwanira' kapena sindimvetsetsa zamitundu. ”

Osakhala wakuda mokwanira? Kodi izi zikutanthauza chiyani? Nthawi yomweyo ndimaganizira za Ruby Rose / Batwoman momwe mafani oopsa Amatanthauza kuti sanali zibwenzi zokwanira kuti achite izi, ndipo adalemba kuti abwerere kumutuwu.

"Ndikuganiza kuti zomwe adakumana nazo [Rachel True] ndizovomerezeka, koma sindikudziwa ngati kusankhana kwadala," adapitiliza Warren. “Chimodzi mwazinthu zomwe ine ndi ndinazindikira kuti akamanena za nkhani yake, anthu azinena zinthu monga, 'Palibe chifukwa choti anthu akuda achite mantha' kapena 'Palibe mafani ambiri omwe akuda modzidzimutsa.' ”

"Chabwino, amenewo ndi mabodza owongoka." “Ine ndikuti ndinene izo mwamsanga kumene. Limenelo ndi bodza lamkunkhuniza. ”

"Ndi tsankho chabe," wolemba komanso wotsogolera ku San Francisco apitiliza Comika Hartford. “Ndioposa anthu okhawo omwe amapanga zisankho. Ndi chifukwa chakuti timakhala m'dziko lokonda tsankho lomwe lamangidwa chifukwa cha kuphana, ukapolo, ndi kuphana. Zomwe ndapeza ndikuti zinthu sizikuyenda bwino, ndipo ndapeza kuti anthuwa adziika okha ngati olondera 'mdima.' Ndikuti tigawe yemwe 'wakuda wakovomerezeka' ndi yemwe sali. ”

"Tawona zoyipa zomwe amalandila kuchokera kwa omwe amalimbikitsa ndi omwe akukonzekera msonkhano omwe akufuna kuyankha," anawonjezera a Drexel University alum komanso wolemba ziwonetsero wopambana mphoto Chris Courtney Martin. "Amati, 'Tikuyitanirani, koma mwangovuta.'”

"Uku ndikuwunika mafuta chifukwa adawayitana." Hartford adati.

Kuunikira kwa gasi kumatanthawuza kusokoneza mwa kusoka mbewu zokayikitsa mu ukhondo kapena kudalirika kwa munthu. Mawuwa amachokera mu kanema wa 1944 George Cukor, Gasi, momwe Charles Boyer amayesa kuyendetsa amisala Ingrid Berman.

"Oimira ake anali atafika kale ndipo adauzidwa kuti alibe chidwi," adatero Warren.

"Tsopano, amakhala ndikusimba nkhani ya 'mkazi wakuda wokwiya' ndikupangitsa kuti ziwoneke ngati kuti anali wankhanza komanso wankhanza," Martin anapitiliza, "ndipo sakufuna kugwira naye ntchito pomwe tikudziwa kale kuti zafika tsankho. ”

"Mukapanga peep, mumakhala ndi malingaliro azimayi akuda okwiya aja," adatero Cruell. "Mukamadandaula kapena kufunsa ngakhale zinthu zabwino kwambiri, malingaliro amenewo amatuluka mofulumira kuposa momwe mungafikire pofunsidwa."

Cruell anapitiliza kufotokoza zomwe anakumana nazo akukulira m'tawuni yaying'ono momwe aliyense amadziwira aliyense, komanso momwe zinapangira "kusazindikira mitundu" pazomwe zimachitika padziko lapansi.

Atapita ku Harvard Law School, adaganiza zopanga zolemba, m'malo mwake, kusankhana mitundu komanso zachiwerewere komwe adakumana nako kunali kovuta, koma kuti anthu onga Kulankhula zowona amapereka chitsimikiziro cha zomwe adakumana nazo.

"Zinanditengera kanthawi kuti ndizindikire nthawi yomwe ndimayamba," adalongosola. “Ndimapitilizabe kulandira mphotho ndikupanga mayanjano opambana kenako ndikakumana ndi munthu wina yemwe adapambana malo achitatu pampikisano umodzi ndipo anali kale ndi wothandizila komanso manejala. Zimangopitilira ndipo umafika poti umangosokonezeka ndipo umasowa kolowera ndipo uyenera kudziwa ngati izi zikuchitikira anthu ena. ”

Anapitiliza kufotokoza kuti izi ndizofanana ndi zakale Malo a Twilight episode "Anthu Asanu Pofunafuna Kutuluka" akunena kuti onse akuyang'ana chitseko koma ndi amuna okhawo [azungu] omwe akuwayang'anira omwe angafikitse, ndipo sizikuwoneka kuti ali okonzeka.

Kwa iwo omwe akuganiza kuti azimayi awa akhoza kukhala akukokomeza, ndikukuwuzani kuti ngakhale kuchuluka kwa amuna akuda omwe akutsogolera pazotulutsa zazikulu zawonjezeka pazaka zingapo zapitazi, kuchuluka kwa azimayi achikuda ndikotsika kwambiri.

Pamenepo, malinga ndi mitundu yosiyanasiyana, popereka lipoti pamafilimu 100 apamwamba pazaka 12 zilizonse zapitazi, adanenanso kuti mwa maudindo 1200, panali owongolera azimayi akuda asanu okha ndipo azimayi atatu aku Asia ndi Latina m'modzi.

Zimakhala zopusa pomwe wina angaganize malingaliro omwe tikusowa posaphatikizaponso mawu awa.

Koma tiyeni tibwererenso ku funso loti kodi "kukhala wakuda mokwanira."

"Funso langa nthawi zonse ndiloti 'Kodi kumasulira kwanu wakuda ndikotani?'" Wopanga makanema komanso wochita sewero ku Georgia a Melissa Kunnap adati. "Kaŵirikaŵiri yankho lawo limakhala lachinyengo kwambiri ndipo ndikuti, 'Ndiye ndiwe chizindikiro cha mzungu?' Akanena izi, ayi, azungu amabwera ndi misinkhu yosiyanasiyana komanso maphunziro ndikuwauza momwemonso. Lingaliro lanu la zomwe munthu wakuda is, ndi malingaliro andime ndipo sizomwe tili padziko lapansi. ”

"Azungu amaganiza kuti akuyang'anira ntchito zakuda zakuda," adawonjezera Hartford. "Palinso vuto la kukakamizidwa kwa utoto ku US Ndilo gawo lalikulu lamavuto ndipo ndichachidziwikire kuti ndi matenda aku Europe omwe amakhudza zikhalidwe zina. Mukamachita masewera okongoletsa mitundu, mumakhala ndi mavuto omwe amabwera chifukwa cha atsamunda. "

Kwa iwo osazindikira, "utoto" umatanthawuza stratification yochokera pakhungu pomwe mawonekedwe ena, mawonekedwe ake, zabwino zake, ndi zoyipa zake, zimayanjanitsidwa ndi mitundu yosiyanasiyana yakuwala komanso mdima wakhungu la munthu.

"Sindikuganiza kuti akudziwa momwe zimakhalira zachinyengo," adatero Cruell. "Zili ngati kuti akulekanitsa ndikusankha momwe angakhalire munthu. Amatha kukhala chilichonse kuyambira woyimba wakumayiko komanso wakumadzulo kupita kumutu, koma mumangololedwa kukhala chinthu chimodzi. Timachepetsedwa ndi malire omwe mtundu wina udakhazikitsa wina. Zimakwiyitsa komanso kuchepetsa malire. ”

"Munthu wakuda kulikonse ayenera kuyimira munthu wakuda kulikonse," anawonjezera Hartford "koma azungu ndi 'abwinobwino' ndipo amakhala anthu.”

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